Wednesday, October 26, 2005

Keeping friendship: Five carbon rules.

A good company is a blessing .But to keep a good friendship growing is
difficult .It is like growing a delicate plant. Much care and attention
are needed to maintain your friendship without breaking, especially in the
initial stages. In this article five tips for keeping your friendship
intact is given.
1. Listen to your friend:
People like the company of listeners . So if somebody starts talking
to you, listen, and show interest, then you will be liked. Also be
compassionate and have a heart to his problems and sorrows. Be happy
with his achievements. In short a good friend must be a well-wisher.


2. Don't Boast.
Many do not like to hear people boasting .Also the you boast too much
About your abilities used Buick the on your children then people may
laugh at you internally and make you a joker. So it is advisable not to
boast too much to your friend.
3 Don't be too inquisitive.
People dislike persons who peep into their personal matters. So when
talking with your friend don't insist upon information he is
reluctant to give. This will make you liked by many persons.
4.Don't be too dependant on your friend.
Too much dependence, either physically or financially or otherwise may
breed a contempt towards you in the mind of your friend . This may
sabotage the relation in the long run. So as far as possible become
independent and helping to your friend.
5. Criticize in private and praise in public.
Nobody wants to be criticized in public or in their absence. So
if you find some criticism is due, give it in private, when you
two are alone, or in close company. Also take care that your
words doesn't cause unintentional hurting to your
friend.(sugar coat your criticism). On the other hand if you want
to praise your friend , do it in public. This will boost your
friendship.

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