Avoiding Quarrels :five golden rules

Many quarrels starts from misunderstandings ,some from incompatibility of
personalities, some from emotional games and a few intentionally. Many
quarrels can be avoided by the following golden rules.
Rule 1 :Look before you jump
Before starting any quarrel,you should wait for a short time to control
your feelings. A composed man can react more reasonably and effectively.If
you want you can simulate artificial anger for the effect.
Rule 2: Jump into opponents Boots before jumping at him.
Think from his position and try to see his emotions and logic. Then
you may understand the situation better and may have some other feelings to
him other than anger.
Rule 3 : Try to avoid the quarrel by talk.
Some times instead of blaming a person,explaining your
situation to him may stop a quarrel. This is one of the most important
steps.
Rule 4 :Take words in their good meaning: Many times quarrels errupts
because of misunderstandings. So make sure that you have not misunderstood
other persons words. Try to find the good things in it
Ruke 5: Try a cut off
it experienced that ignoring the other party and cutting off personal
relations for some period saves the day and later paves way for peace of
mind. Reduce talks,xchatting etc with him,try to become more formal etc.
This will reduce the chance of a quarrel.